Exercise for Bigger Bodies

Jason Exercise, Health

There’s a strange myth in our culture — that movement is only for the already fit. That if your body doesn’t fit a certain mold, the gym isn’t for you. That if you’re carrying extra weight, you need to “fix” yourself before you can join in.

Let’s throw that idea out.

Movement is for everyone. Not punishment. Not a test. But a gentle return to your own rhythm. If you’re living in a larger body, especially if you’re obese, moving might feel daunting — and maybe even painful. But it can also be joyful. Empowering. Yours.

That said, before starting any new exercise routine, it’s important to talk to your doctor or healthcare provider. Every body is different, and what works for one person might not be safe for another — especially when chronic conditions, joint pain, or heart health are part of the picture. So check in first. Ask what’s safe. What to avoid. What to try. It’s not about permission — it’s about protection.

Once you’ve got the all-clear, here’s the beautiful part: you get to start wherever you are. There’s no finish line you have to chase. No one you need to compare yourself to. You just begin. And for many people, that beginning is slower, softer — but every bit as valid.

Let’s start with the simplest, most underrated movement of all: walking. Whether it’s around the block, through a garden, or just from one room to the next with intention, walking can be a quiet miracle. It supports your joints, boosts circulation, and lets your body gently remember what it feels like to move.

If walking feels like too much, start smaller. Chair exercises — yes, sitting down and moving your arms, stretching your legs, or using resistance bands — are a fantastic way to engage your muscles without putting strain on your knees or back. There are videos, apps, and DVDs dedicated entirely to this style of movement.

Water-based activities are another gift. The pool takes weight off your joints, making it easier to move freely and without pain. Water walking, light aqua aerobics, or simply floating and stretching can do wonders for mobility, balance, and mental health — and often, they just feel good.

Then there’s gentle yoga or stretching, which might sound intimidating, but doesn’t have to mean folding yourself like a pretzel. There are instructors and online classes that specialize in yoga for larger bodies — they know how to adapt poses and make you feel welcome, not judged. Yoga isn’t about flexibility — it’s about listening to your body and breathing through it.

Dancing in your kitchen counts. So does cleaning the house with music on. So does gardening. So does laughing hard and often.

The goal isn’t to lose X pounds or look a certain way. The goal is to feel more at home in your body. To find out what it can still do. What it enjoys. And maybe, one day, to look forward to that walk or those five minutes of stretches because you know — deep down — you’re doing something just for you.

So start slowly. Rest often. Celebrate tiny wins, like finishing a full set of stretches, or walking five minutes longer than you did last week. Those wins are not small. They are powerful. They are proof of your strength, your patience, your care for yourself.

And when in doubt, remember: you don’t need to be thin to be active. You just need to be willing to begin. On your terms. In your body. With support, with softness, and with the deep knowledge that you are worth the effort.

Every step is still a step forward — and that’s more than enough.

Acceptance Isn’t Surrender: Living Well in a Bigger Body

Jason Exercise, Health, Lifestyle

There comes a moment — after the diets and the weigh-ins, after the shame, the struggle, and the silence — when you stop fighting your body. You stand in front of the mirror, and instead of picking apart what you see, you exhale. Maybe for the first time in years. You decide: This is me. And I’m tired of hating myself for it.

That moment of acceptance is sacred. It’s powerful. It’s a quiet rebellion in a world that insists your worth must shrink before it can shine. But it’s also misunderstood. People often confuse accepting obesity with giving up — as if choosing not to chase weight loss means you’ve stopped caring about your health. As if you’ve thrown in the towel. But the truth is far more layered.

You can love your body and still want better for it. You can accept where you are today while still taking steps toward a healthier tomorrow.

Acceptance isn’t the end of the road — it’s the beginning of a better one.

Because when you stop treating your body like a problem to be solved, you start treating it like a life worth caring for. You stop punishing yourself with extreme diets or workouts you hate. You start asking different questions. What would feel good today? What movement brings me joy? What food makes me feel alive instead of deprived?

That shift is quiet but revolutionary.

Health doesn’t come from shame. It doesn’t come from white-knuckling your way through another weight-loss challenge, only to feel like a failure when your body doesn’t conform. It comes from consistency, from kindness, from choosing — over and over — to nourish a body you’ve decided is already worthy.

Yes, you may live in a larger body. Yes, that body might come with risks or challenges. But you are allowed to care for it without making yourself a project. You are allowed to manage your blood pressure, take your walks, stretch in the morning, cook vibrant meals, drink water, and show up to doctor’s appointments — not because you’re trying to change who you are, but because you already care about who you are.

That’s not giving up. That’s showing up.

There will always be voices telling you that acceptance is dangerous, that you have to be constantly striving to be “better” (read: thinner). But maybe better doesn’t mean smaller. Maybe better means more energy, steadier moods, less joint pain. Maybe it means breathing easier. Walking farther. Living longer. Laughing more.

And maybe, just maybe, you’ll find that some of those things improve without the number on the scale changing much at all.

Why Losing Weight Gets Harder as We Get Older

Jason Diet, Exercise, Lifestyle

There’s a moment — often quiet, sometimes frustrating — when you realize your body doesn’t respond the way it used to. You eat the same meals, move the same way, maybe even cut back a little more than you did in your thirties or forties… and yet, the scale barely budges.

You try to brush it off. Age, metabolism, hormones — we all know the buzzwords. But it doesn’t make it any less discouraging when your effort seems to outpace your progress. And if you’ve ever whispered to yourself, “Why is this so hard now?” — you’re not alone.

Because it is harder. And there are good reasons for it.

The body changes with age — not just on the surface, but deep within. Muscle mass starts to decline in your 30s and 40s and continues at a slow, steady pace unless you actively work against it. Less muscle means a slower metabolism. It’s not your fault. It’s biology. Your body just doesn’t burn calories as efficiently anymore.

Then there’s hormones — especially for women, who may find that menopause completely rewrites the rules of weight management. Estrogen drops, fat redistributes, cravings shift, sleep becomes more fragile. And for men, testosterone levels decline too, bringing their own set of challenges. The body becomes more insulin-resistant, meaning sugar is stored more easily as fat, especially around the belly.

Sleep gets trickier, too — and poor sleep messes with appetite-regulating hormones. You wake up groggy, your cravings shout louder, and your energy to prepare a healthy meal or go for that walk is lower. Fatigue becomes a barrier — and so does stress. Because life doesn’t necessarily get simpler with age. There are responsibilities: jobs, caregiving, grief, transitions. Emotional weight that sits quietly alongside the physical kind.

And then, there’s this subtle, cruel irony: the methods that worked in your younger years often stop working. You might remember cutting carbs once and watching the pounds melt off. You might remember doing aerobics in your living room and feeling lean and powerful. But now, it’s different. Now your body seems to hold on tighter — to calories, to fat, to fatigue.

But here’s the thing no one tells you: it’s not a personal failure. It’s a natural shift.

Losing weight when you’re older isn’t impossible — but it is different. It’s slower. It demands more patience, more intention, more compassion. It may require a pivot from focusing purely on the number on the scale to paying attention to strength, energy, blood sugar, sleep quality, joint health, and mood.

And maybe — just maybe — the goal becomes less about being smaller, and more about being well. Strong. Balanced. Comfortable in your skin, even if it carries more softness than it used to.

The truth is, aging is a privilege. Not everyone gets to do it. And while the path to weight loss may be slower or steeper, it can still be meaningful. You’re not working with the body you had at 25 — you’re working with the one that’s carried you through decades. So, no, you’re not imagining it. It is harder to lose weight when you’re older.

But you’re also wiser now. You know your rhythms. You know what matters. And maybe, with a shift in perspective, the journey becomes less about fighting your body — and more about learning to support it, as it is now.

Why We Snack

Jason Exercise, Food, Psycholoy

It usually starts quietly. You’re not hungry, exactly. You’re just… in the kitchen. Or scrolling. Or tired. Or bored. And suddenly, your hand reaches for something — a bag of chips, a cookie, something crunchy or creamy or sweet. You’re snacking.

Again.

You tell yourself it’s just a little something. A break. A treat. A moment of comfort between the noise. And maybe it is. But by the end of the day, you realize you’ve been snacking almost all day long — a handful here, a bite there, grazing through hours without quite knowing why.

So, why do we snack?

The answer, like most things related to food and feelings, isn’t simple. We snack because we’re tired. Because we’re stressed. Because we’re multitasking and meals feel like too much work. We snack because we’re sad, or overstimulated, or underfed from that rushed breakfast six hours ago. We snack because it’s easy, fast, and there — a granola bar in the drawer, a vending machine down the hall, a snack-size feeling of control.

But mostly, we snack because life moves quickly and food has become less about hunger and more about filling in the gaps — of time, of emotion, of energy. Snacking has become a lifestyle, not a bridge between meals.

And when we snack, we often reach for junk. Not because we lack discipline, but because those foods are designed to be irresistible. Salt, sugar, and fat in just the right combination to bypass logic and go straight to the pleasure centers of the brain. That neon orange cheese dust wasn’t an accident. That cookie’s soft chewiness? Engineered.

Junk food doesn’t judge, doesn’t require a plate or a plan. It’s marketed to soothe and stimulate. It gives you a little dopamine hit, and for a moment, it works. But it doesn’t satisfy. Not really. So we go back for more — chasing fullness that never quite lands.

So how do we break the snack habit?

Not by going cold turkey. The first step is simply noticing. Noticing when you snack, what you’re reaching for, and—most importantly—what you’re actually feeling in that moment. Are you bored? Overwhelmed? Procrastinating? Underfed?

Sometimes breaking the snack cycle means eating more intentionally, not less. Real meals. With enough protein, fiber, and healthy fats to carry you. Sit-down moments instead of grab-and-go improvisations. When your body feels nourished, the urgent pull of snack cravings often softens.

Other times, it’s about changing the cue-response loop. If you always snack when you’re bored, what else can fill that space? A walk? A stretch? Music? A glass of water and a deep breath? These swaps won’t always work — but they open a small window between urge and action, and sometimes that’s enough.

We don’t break habits by punishing ourselves. We break them by getting to know them. By feeding our bodies well. By slowing down long enough to ask: what do I really need right now?

And sometimes, the answer isn’t food.

But when it is, let it be a choice — not a reflex.

Just Say No

 

How to Survive a Museum Tour with Sore Hips

Jason Culture, Exercise, Health

Know Where the Seats Are: Most museums have benches, folding chairs, or quiet corners to sit — use them! Strategy: Walk a bit, sit a bit. Even a 2–3 minute break can relieve hip pressure. Ask at the front desk for a map or info on seating areas — they’re usually happy to help.

Stretch It Out, Subtly: Try light, discreet stretches while standing or seated: gentle hip rolls, calf raises to keep circulation going, shifting weight from one leg to the other. Just don’t push past your comfort zone — think “release,” not “workout.”

Use a Cane, Walker, or Portable Stool if Needed: No shame in mobility aids — they’re tools for freedom, not defeat. A foldable travel cane seat can be a total lifesaver: walk with it, then sit when needed.

Wear Supportive Shoes: You’d be surprised how much your footwear impacts your hips. Ditch anything flat, flimsy, or unsupportive. Go for cushioned insoles, arch support, and shock absorption. Sneakers or orthopedic shoes are your best friends here.

Pace Yourself — You Don’t Have to See Everything: Museums can be huge. Pick 3–5 sections that you really care about, and skip or skim the rest. You’re there to enjoy — not power through every exhibit like it’s a marathon.

Bring Heat or Ice for Afterward: A small heat patch can soothe your hips post-tour. If you’re heading home or to a hotel, alternate heat and cold for recovery.

Stay Hydrated + Lightly Fueled: Dehydration and fatigue can make hip pain worse. Carry water, a small snack, or electrolyte tabs. Your body will thank you.

Speak Up if You’re in a Group Tour: If you’re with a group and need a break, don’t be afraid to excuse yourself for a few minutes or ask the guide to slow down. Your comfort is more important than keeping up appearances.

Use the Museum App or Audio Guide: If you need to take a seated break, you can still learn and engage from a bench. Many museums have audio tours, videos, or mobile guides so you don’t miss out while resting.

Be Kind to Yourself: Hip pain sucks, but you’re still showing up, still exploring, still learning. That’s worth celebrating. Move at your pace, take your time, and honor your body — it’s carrying you through art, culture, and history. That’s amazing.

The Golden Rule if You Are Fat and Old, Like I Am: Never try to compete with people who are younger and healthier than you. Stick with groups who are similar to you.

 

How Walking Helps People with Obesity

Jason Exercise, Health, Lifestyle

Walking might seem simple, but for people living with obesity, it can be a powerful, low-impact way to boost health, confidence, and energy — no gym membership or fancy gear required.

Here’s why walking really works:

Gentle on the Body, Easy to Start: Unlike high-intensity workouts, walking is low-impact — which means it’s kinder to your joints, especially the knees, hips, and ankles. It’s a great entry point for people who are just starting out or returning to movement after a long break.

Great for Heart Health: Obesity increases the risk of heart disease — but walking helps fight that. Regular walks can: lower blood pressure, improve cholesterol levels, and boost circulation. Even a 20–30 minute walk a few times a week can make a big difference over time.

Burns Calories, Supports Weight Loss: Walking helps burn calories — especially when done consistently. You don’t need to speed-walk or go miles. It’s about staying consistent. The cool part? The more you weigh, the more calories you burn per minute — so every step counts.

Improves Mood & Reduces Stress: Walking isn’t just about the body — it helps the mind too. Moving your body can release endorphins (feel-good chemicals), reduce anxiety, and even help with emotional eating. Plus, walking outdoors adds a bonus boost from fresh air, nature, or sunlight.

Helps With Sleep & Energy: Obesity is often linked to sleep issues like sleep apnea or fatigue. Regular walking can help improve sleep quality and boost daily energy, which makes it easier to stay motivated and active during the day.

Builds Momentum: One of the best things about walking is how it builds confidence. Starting with even 5–10 minutes a day can grow into a habit. As your endurance improves, you may find yourself walking farther, faster, or more often — without it feeling like a chore.

Bottom Line: Walking is not just exercise — it’s a gateway to feeling better, moving more, and creating positive change. You don’t need to go far. You just need to go at your pace. Every step forward is a step toward better health.

My Personal Experience: I bought a treadmill and it is the best investment I have ever made. Whenever I can spare a few minutes, as little as five sometimes, I walk on the treadmill. Walking longer than 10 minutes makes my hip joint hurt so walking outdoors is not for me as I may not make it back home without experiencing severe pain. Yeah, I know I’m a 73 year old fat wreck, but at least I am trying to not fall apart completely.