Digital Puzzles and Brain Games: Are They Really Helping Your Mind?

When it comes to staying sharp as we age, many of us are turning to brain-training apps and online puzzles. From Sudoku to memory match games, these tools promise to keep your mind young. But do they really work—especially for older adults or people with obesity-related cognitive concerns?

The Rise of Brain Games

Apps like Lumosity, Elevate, and BrainHQ are wildly popular with older adults. The pitch is simple: just a few minutes a day will boost memory, attention, and problem-solving. And who doesn’t want that?

For people managing obesity, brain fog can be an additional challenge—especially when combined with the natural aging process. So it’s no surprise these games seem like a smart, low-effort way to fight back.

What the Science Says

Studies show mixed results. Some research finds that brain games do help—but mostly with the specific tasks you practice. So if you’re doing a memory game every day, you’ll likely get better at that game. But whether those improvements translate into real-life memory (like remembering where you put your keys) is still up for debate.

That said, researchers have found that mental stimulation of any kind—puzzles, reading, learning a language—can support long-term brain health. It’s not magic, but it’s helpful.

Why It Might Matter More If You’re Older or Living With Obesity

Cognitive decline can happen faster when multiple factors overlap, like:

  • Age-related changes in brain structure

  • Sleep disturbances (common in both groups)

  • Chronic inflammation linked to obesity

  • Social isolation

Engaging your mind regularly helps offset these risks. Brain games can also promote daily structure, reduce stress, and increase confidence.

How to Get the Most Out of Brain Games

If you’re going to use them, make it count. Here are a few tips:

  • Mix it up: Play different kinds of games—word, logic, reaction time

  • Set a schedule: A few consistent minutes a day is better than a marathon once a week

  • Don’t go it alone: Invite a friend to play with or talk about your progress

  • Stay realistic: Think of brain games as part of your health toolkit, not a cure-all

Other Ways to Boost Brain Health

Looking beyond the screen? Try these alternatives:

  • Physical activity—Even a short walk boosts blood flow to the brain

  • Balanced nutrition—Omega-3s, antioxidants, and hydration matter

  • Sleep hygiene—A rested brain is a sharper brain

  • Creative hobbies—Painting, writing, and music stimulate the mind deeply

Final Thoughts

Brain games aren’t a silver bullet—but they can be a smart part of your brain health plan. For older adults or those living with obesity, mental stimulation is not just fun—it’s essential. So go ahead, tap into that word game. Just make sure you’re also moving, connecting, and nourishing your brain in other ways, too.

How to Have a Fat Party

It starts with a vibe. Not a theme, not a checklist, not a Pinterest board. A vibe. Joyful, radical, defiant in its softness. A party, yes—but not just any party. A fat party. One where every guest invited is gloriously fat, unapologetically themselves, and absolutely ready to take up space—physically, emotionally, and energetically.

You send out the invitations. They’re cheeky, a little glittery, full of warmth. No diet talk, no weigh-ins, no backhanded compliments allowed. Just: “Come as you are. Wear what makes you feel like a star. We’re dancing, we’re laughing, we’re snacking. You deserve to enjoy yourself.”

Because you do.

There’s something healing about gathering with people who just get it. The unspoken battles, the everyday microaggressions, the awkward chairs and unsolicited advice. At a fat party, those battles dissolve. You’re not explaining yourself. You’re not shrinking. You’re not the only fat person in the room—you’re one among many. A constellation of beauty in every body.

You prep the space with intention. Comfy chairs, floor cushions, and nothing too precious to sit on. There’s movement in the music—a playlist curated to make you shimmy without thinking. Think disco, pop, queer anthems, and the deep cuts that make everyone yell “oh my GOD this song!” at least once an hour.

And then: the snacks. Oh, the snacks.

But this isn’t about drowning in sugar or throwing nutrition out the window in the name of “cheat day” rebellion. No. This is about love. You bring out healthy snacks—not in the punitive, diet-y sense, but in the way your body feels nourished, supported, and still joyful after you eat. We’re talking juicy watermelon wedges, roasted chickpeas dusted in smoky paprika, cucumber spears with tahini drizzle, date balls rolled in coconut flakes, air-fried samosas, guacamole so good it makes your eyes close for a second.

Food that says, “I care about me and you.”

Food that fuels dancing and belly laughs and talking for three hours about nothing and everything.

Someone brings kombucha cocktails. Someone else shows up with homemade hummus in four colors. There’s herbal tea, there’s sparkling water, and maybe there’s cake—but the kind that doesn’t come with guilt as a side dish. Just celebration. Just sweetness for sweetness’ sake.

But here’s the thing: while this party is about joy, it’s also about honesty.

Yes, we are fat. Yes, we are beautiful and worthy and human. But no—being fat is not, by itself, a healthy state. Many of us carry extra weight for complex, deeply personal reasons—trauma, illness, economics, survival. And even in this moment of love, we need to tell the truth: our bodies deserve care, not just comfort.

This isn’t about shame. It’s about hoping—maybe even working—toward a future where fat parties don’t need to exist. Not because fat people shouldn’t be celebrated, but because we’ve created lives full of support, resources, and health that help us live in bodies that thrive. Bodies that move with ease. Hearts that beat strong. Communities where prevention and care are accessible, not aspirational.

We celebrate today, and we commit to ourselves tomorrow.

Because you are not a problem to fix. You are a whole, vibrant human being. But you also deserve your best shot at health, energy, longevity, and feeling good—not just emotionally, but physically.

So, dance hard. Laugh loud. Pass the carrots and the cupcakes. But don’t forget: this joy can live alongside change. You can love yourself and want something better.

For tonight, though? We party. And it’s a damn good one.

Recipe: Classic Meatloaf

Here’s a classic, comforting meatloaf recipe — budget friendly, tender, flavorful, and topped with a sweet-savory glaze. Perfect for a cozy dinner with leftovers for sandwiches the next day or frozen.

Ingredients

– 2 large eggs, lightly beaten
– 1/3 cup milk
– 3 tablespoons Worcestershire sauce
– Kosher salt
– 1/4 cup olive oil
– 1 large onion, chopped
– 2 cloves garlic, finely grated
– 1 tablespoon thyme leaves, chopped
– Freshly ground pepper
– 1/2 cup ketchup
– 2 pounds 80/20 ground beef chuck
– 1/2 cup panko

Instructions

1. Arrange a rack in the center of the oven and preheat to 450 degrees F. Line a rimmed baking sheet with foil.
2. Whisk the eggs, milk, Worcestershire sauce and 2 teaspoons salt in a large bowl until completely combined. Heat the oil in a large skillet over medium-high heat. Add the onion, garlic, thyme, 1/2 teaspoon salt and 1 teaspoon pepper and cook, stirring occasionally, until the onions are tender and lightly golden brown, 8 to 10 minutes.
3. Add 3 tablespoons of the ketchup and cook until most of the moisture has evaporated and the mixture is thick and brick red colored, 3 to 4 minutes. Remove the skillet from the heat and let the onions cool slightly. Then add them to the beaten eggs and mix to combine.
4. Add the beef to the egg and onion mixture. Break up the meat with a fork or wooden spoon, and then mix to thoroughly combine; you don’t want to see any lumps of raw beef. Add the panko and mix to combine. Stir the meat vigorously with a wooden spoon for about 7 seconds; it will become more homogenous and tackier.
5. Transfer the meat to the prepared baking sheet and shape into a 9-by-5-inch loaf. Smooth the top and evenly spread the remaining ketchup over top. Bake for 5 minutes, and then reduce the oven temperature to 350 degrees. Continue to bake until an instant-read thermometer inserted into the center of the loaf registers 150 degrees F, 30 to 35 minutes. Allow the meatloaf to rest for 20 minutes before slicing.